11. Lunar Kindness

Becoming a better person is difficult because it requires a wider range of knowledge to overcome uncertainties that trigger us, and studying is a hard labor. It's also a decision: we must decide for ourselves to be better and train our patience and goodness.

One has to constantly consult their conscience and ask their self: where will this situation lead me? 

Uncultivated people are selectively kind: they judge the world around them to distribute their kindness according to a hidebound agenda, which, in the long run, is not profitable 🥴

If you want to remain selectively kind, you as well allow others to treat you rudely when they don't feel like giving you the nod. This is the outcome of the world order of the microcosm of the chosen ones.

You are the Moon, and the Shadow of Earth will determine the level of your kindness: something annoying happens and your forbearance is eclipsed because it's only the sunlight reflected on your surface and can be easily dimmed by every negative earthly event. 

The reason for being selectively kind is the lack of control over earthly affairs and an attempt to regulate their course and your personal future in the direction of your well-being as you see it. 

Selective kindness, in this prospective, becomes a tool of redirection, which is generally beneficial to human society as it is, but selectiveness develops the mentality of a bouncer in every participant of the game.

We all have been taught to be polite, and the way we communicate is an indicator of the phase of our lunar kindness. 

The petitioner will be humble, and the bouncer will be severe. 

"Only the clear understanding that we all need something sometime gives us the right direction" - I prefer to start my reflection with this thought to not be seen as that person who only calls when she needs something, so that I can control the situation before the nuisance has happened. Sooner or later, it will happen - we all know that. 

I don't want to give those selectively kind people the chance to secretly add me to their list of people permanently unworthy of their kindness. God forbid!😄

Practicing superficial kindness, such things as smiling no matter what, saying nice jokes, treating people like old friends even if I know them only for a while or don't know at all, helps to postpone undesirable, negative immediate reaction to provoking behavior - I'll take my time to ponder on it.

Selectively kind people don't have too many well-wishers: when they hear you accept their reactivity with an expressive understanding they will think twice before they hit you with the verbal aggression again.

Let your Moon shine no matter what drama has unfolded because someone chose the dark side of their Moon: you are always present, not only in the moment when you need help but in the good times too - 🤗the good times that you have created! 

It's a preservation of your spirit because later on you can narrate that goodnight story to your grandkids: I came in this world, it was all trash and dark ages, and I changed this world for the better🤣

Every person, every animal loves to be treated kindly, and it's up to humans to establish kindness as a way of living in general. And for that, one has to study various subjects to fully understand the causes and consequences of anybody's choices and behavior.